Showing posts with label personality tests. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personality tests. Show all posts

Thursday, May 1, 2014

BIRDSONG AND OTHER RANDOM THOUGHTS



Early morning and you can still listen to the birdsong.  The crows are raucous, the sparrows chirrup and a lone koel (Indian Cuckoo) sends out its piercing signature whistle.  Yes, I live in the cramped interior of a large city.  Then, suddenly over the chorus, I am startled by the sweetest warble. I pause.  Yes, there it comes again! What could it be? If hubby were here, he would tell me.  He knew his birds!
 
That got me thinking of times shared and our many and varied conversations.  Hubby had his preferences from among the animal kingdom and so did I.  Of birds, he loved the bulbul best; when he spotted one, his face would take on an excited tenderness while he watched. Of dogs, he loved the collie – memories of Lassie fueled that affection.  The reality was somewhat different; he soon found out that collies have strong and somewhat wayward personalities, thanks to Bonnie (our collie).  Among fish (not of the edible kind) it was a tie between his Kissing Gouramis and Siamese Fighters.


Among fish and birds, I have no favourites but if I must choose I would opt for a certain variety of Goldfish – the ones with the diaphanous fins and tails.  They look as if they are draped in chiffon! Among birds, I would choose the falcon - strong, majestic and independent.  But they are cruel too.  So, perhaps, I had better look at my second choice, the parrot.  Chatterboxes all, they come with a variety of amusing anecdotes attached!  As for dogs, the Jack Russell wins hands down.  Get to know one and you’ll understand why!


I wonder if these preferences say something about our own personalities. I am sure there is a quiz somewhere that will tell me about it!  But for now, I’ll hold on to the memory of a gentle, loving, protective man who could only be roused to temper if anything he valued was threatened.  


The dawn chorus is fading, smothered by the encroaching sounds of human commute and commerce.  Thank God that remembrance, even when overlaid by the present, still returns like the sudden joy of birdsong in the morning.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Ticking Boxes

My mental age is 40; my heart’s age is 80. That averages out at 60 which is my chronological age – thank goodness!! 60 is a lovely time of life: still young enough to push the boundaries and old enough to get away with it.

How did I come by the quoted stats? The online quiz, of course. Friends pass on the links and, being a sucker for the questionnaire, I keep clicking away till I am presented with the result. In the days BI (Before Internet), I would pounce on the various Q&As in the glossies and tick away avidly, collecting the associated alphabets (a, b, c or d) and then totaling them up to find the score. Check Your Compatibility (hubby and I were a perfect match – I knew that, but it is lovely to be told so by an ‘intelligent’ medium); What Shape Are You? (That would be telling!); Are You Antisocial? (Very – I prefer curling up with a book to attending a shindig); Are You Eating Healthy? (Of course not – I’m not yet ready to forgo ice creams and cheesecake); What Does Your Personality Rating Say About You? (Plenty!!); Do You Spend Too Much Time on the Internet? (Probably. But then, I have a lot of catching up to do.) Curious and adventurous, that’s me!

Sometimes the questionnaires come with a bonus. Fill up and post and you may get a lucky gift: I have received T-Shirts, key chains, a scarf, and sundry other items over the years.

I wonder about the people who come up with the questions and answers (some of which are impossible to identify with, even though you are urged to tick the ‘closest answer’). How accurate are the assessments? Having gone through my fair share of psychological tests (college admissions, job interviews), I often queried the reliability. I am affronted by the thought that someone can tell exactly who and what kind of person I am by merely scanning a cold and impersonal interrogation. I have been assured that there are checks and balances built in to ensure veracity and that the method is tried and tested. So, now I enjoy entering wild and wacky choices when forced to take an assessment test. One questionnaire asked if I would like to ‘kill my parents’ (!) I checked the ‘yes’ box. I made it to the interview and beyond!! (Perhaps they were really looking for someone with murderous tendencies.)

Well so much for the questionnaire. I have now to return to that recurring quiz: Are you ready to face the day? I check ‘Yes’ and ‘No’ – Yes, because the day holds out some promises; no, because there are unavoidable routine chores. Does that make me an optimistic pessimist or should that be the other way around?